I told myself a story that wasn’t true based on my interpretation of what I read and my own personal lens. I deceived myself by believing what I wanted to believe.
The dogs haven’t learned that they will never, ever win in their desire to rid our yard, or our village, of squirrels. In their quest to alter reality, these dogs take after their adopted mother: me.
Rather than expecting everyone to view reality as we do, I’m wondering if we can be open, curious even, to asking questions in a sincere, nonjudgmental way about why someone holds particular opinions or interpretations of reality.
Bringing home a puppy is inviting chaos and a lot of extra work into your home. It’s also saying, “I do” to more love and joy, and that’s what I want, regardless of my age.
The dogs were happy; in fact, they were excited to be outside, moving and smelling all the wonderful things the world had to offer. Their joy in being alive and walking was not diminished in the least.
In an effort not to be lazy, we push ourselves to do more and rest less. Our standards for what we think we should accomplish in one day far exceed our time and energy.
I told her nothing of importance, but everything I said was important. It helped her know she was not alone, just like my mom helped me all those years before.